So i was touring through facebook noticing a few main pictures of certain individuals (by individuals i do mean Females). I couldn't help to notice a lot of people's pages that i may have had super crushes on back in the day. I would go to check their pages and peep current pictures and to be honest... i was not impressed. The one thing i hate to see but i guess can't change much is the fact that girls are letting theirselves go.... HORRIBLY too early! everyone and they mama is havin kids... Not the best decision for everyone at the moment. This makes me ask the question, is anyone NOT USING CONDOMS ANYMORE?!? Ladies and Gentleman, Having Babies is not a fad!..... It's life! and when you make the decision to have one, it is very financially, mentally and physically stressful. I understand no one wants to be an old parent but the fact of the matter at hand is that if you dont have a degree to achieve a good paying job, to make good money to provide a good living for the family... then you're just tryna make end's meet*
First off, almost
First off, almost
*[just to digress for a minute, i never knew what that term "end's meet" meant until like a year ago... i used to think people were sayin "end's meat" as if a person could not even afford enough to buy the end of the meat.. which sounds very poor. Instead it means you're working so much that the end of you working and the end of you making comfortable amount of money to live good, will never touch so your constantly working in order to get to that inevitable point.... wow!.... *the more you know*]
It's kinda sad actually cuz' i feel at this stage in my life i'm doing very well for myself and if these females decided to give me any kind of play before, they would have had a good and successful guy to grow with. BUT they can forget about that chance now. The last thing i need is to be with a chick with kids that aint mine and drama left and right cuz the baby father comes around once in a while not liking me. I got my Associates in Science, expecting my Bachelor's in Arts next May, I have no kids, my personality i feel is very super and i'm a creative individual. There is no way i will resort to having my career working a regular 9 to 5. Not knockin anyone else, i'm just spitting true facts... LIVE LIFE & LOVETT (wellllll not that Lovett, but you know what i mean!)
PS- I would put pics of shorties up but that's a lil ODee dontcha think??? maybe next time i will, lol
ahhhh you..you nigga..ive been waiting to see how to put this without looking od senstive or like a complete PUS!but imma speak my mind and you'll agree to disagree..first off i am a washed up my mom!so maybe thats why i view it this way..the whole condom comment is whhhack cuz 90 percent of my friends who have had sex have either gotten pregnant and had an abortion or had a pregnancy scare..most ppl i know who are 25yrs of age and have gotten there sexually active have been in that situation..so noones better then anyone.we could all be more careful.i totally agree with you not wanting to mess with any moms this stage in your life cuz i dont even mess with dudes with babies and im a mommy!!..but there will come a time when the plainfield will level everyone you talk to will either have a child or have some kind of other baggage..you might have a child and it dont work out with baby moms and u will date someones babymoma!!!...I dont think children is an excuse to hold you back from anything..its a obstacle but if your driven and can and will make it.it might take longer you might sleep less you might not party you might not be as fly as other ppl but you can and will make it...you meant no harm...but i shouldnt like you were bashing ppl with children...i hear whatcha saying but ppl who dont know you would take this differently..maybe im just a senstive nickel!and yes bobby you can post my picture..hoe..lmao..
ReplyDeleteand you can tell i was in a rush mommying..that needed serious proofreading!im not stupid..im justa mom!
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